To Do It Or Not

September 11, 2009 by Rene A Lacape
Filed under: Weddings 

Every so often, a man waits at the last moment to realize that he is not ready to get married. Staring at the walls of the church, his mouth went bone dry and he was all sweaty, while he tried to figure out why he had agreed to let someone else make the most important decision in his life.

Some may feel like they just want to escape when they have the chance but when they think about the hearts they will break, they quickly snap back into reality. They will also wonder why those who took charge of everything since day was still has the energy to go even more than ever than ever.

His grief-stricken sigh made the minister stared at him. He was irritated when his brother tantalized him and swore for revenge. At times, a groom might feel sorry for himself while standing at the altar. Even harmful teasing can annoy him.

Young people would rather not be tied up in marriage when they are still below 40. They don’t regard it as important as their elders do. For them, as long as they are in a relationship, they can plan to settle down later when they decided to slow down in life. Their parents however do not share the same view as these young people. They will tend to push them into tying the knot. More often than not, the youngsters have to go along with their parent’s decision.

Until he got married and have kids of his own; his mom won’t stop pestering him. Other than wanting to see his mother happy, he just wanted her to stop pestering him.

Preparing for a wedding ceremony is by far most agonizing for couples. Nobody can forget about their beautiful wedding but not a soul would want to go through the horrendous labor they went though in putting it all together. Nevertheless, canceling it on the last minute would not be an intelligent thing to do. Photo-taking and shopping-the things people normally enjoy was most unbearable in the circumstance of preparing for wedding. They had to get down even to the most trivial items.

It is often argued that there should be less fuss over preparing such detail matter into the ceremony. No one would give a hoot if the cake top was adorned with little figurines of bride and groom or doves. These things mean nothing after the cake is consumed. Although this is true, imagine the opposite, a topless cake, this will get the guest wondering why.

Of course when you think about it, it seems reasonable to actually pay attention to every detail. To look her best, brides are inclined to overspend. Looking her best on the historical day would be an accomplishment on her part but a disaster for the one who has to foot the bill.

Wedding dresses are made to be worn once in a lifetime for a girl. But the price would sometime be equal to how much you would spend for clothes in a year or maybe two which is absurd

“Trump, tum, ta, ta ” I was jarred out of my wild imaginings as the organ pealed out the dreaded song – “Here comes .”

She stood at the sunlit door of the church. Everything (even the sky-high bill!) fled my mind as she walked down the aisle, step by step, towards me. My heart beat faster and faster, it felt as though it was going to explode.

I could not tear my gaze away from her. How could I not – I could see nothing else. The face of my bride, she shyly smiling and poised, eyelashes demurely fixed on her bouquet of white roses. Heavens, did I deserve this angel? Could I give her happiness? Could I be happy?

Three steps away, she lifted her gaze to me. I saw the uncertainty and doubt in her shining eyes replaced by calm tranquility. That singular moment transformed my entire life. In a flash of understanding, I saw that she was giving her life, her trust, her love to me. and how could I return any less?

I held out my hand. She took it. My fingers closed around hers. This was it – our choice, our commitment.

As they turned to the priest, he secretly made a promise that he would never let her down. Although they may have their bad days, this would not shake him. This is because he now knows that the most important thing for them is to keep together and try to raise a family.

It was all as if he was dreaming. He knew that they loved each other and that is all they need.

The words in my heart came clear and confident, “I do.

Rene Lacape has been organizing parties for so many years now. He has done all kinds of events already. He started with birthday parties to corporate parties. If you think you need a hardworking person to handle your events, call on him now.

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