How To Easily Get Women In Bars

November 15, 2009 by Richard Shell
Filed under: Relationships 

Finding a woman to date is not as hard and you might think. You can find a potential companion anywhere, not just at parties like you might think. Take a look around, women are everywhere. Use the ideas in this article and flirt with as many women as you can, even ones you are not interested in, and soon you will have no end of dating possibilities.

When you see an attractive woman, the first thing you will want to do is make eye contact. Don’t freak her out with a stare though! Then use the ‘3 second rule’, three seconds after you have noticed here, start a conversation. The topic really isn’t that important, if you don’t know what to say, try an opinion-neutral question that does not attract attention to you or her. She really won’t be listening to the question as much as she will be noticing how confident you are.

Do you best to keep the conversation flowing at a natural, relaxed rate. This is not an interview. Try to think of some stories that share something interesting about yourself. Use humor, it relaxes everyone and makes you more human. It isn’t easy to be funny when you are nervous, but you can learn how to do this. Don’t pretend to know more about a subject than you really do and don’t have a one topic conversation. Try to avoid religion, politics or any other controversial topic. If the conversation has a down time, this is okay and perfectly natural.

Ask her for her number. If you don’t feel comfortable doing this after such a short time, try to find out where she might be in the next few days. They you could arrange to meet her again, ‘accidentally’.

Don’t be upset or feel hurt if you get a refusal. If possible, build a friendship. You have nothing to lose. Everyone can use another friend. After you get to know one another, you never know, you might even start dating.

A woman will know right away if you are too interested or desperate. Try to maintain a cool, collected and not too interested attitude. How would Brad Pitt act in the same situation? Think about this and try to act the same way.

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