Will You Be Ready To Move On
Trying to preserve the friendship and companionship in a relationship that has turned bitter can worsen things in that manner. To be nice to someone who once owned your heart is a big risk for your own emotions. Making up is good if the relationship is worth fighting for, but what if it’s not? Being in love yesterday doesn’t mean being in love today and tomorrow. To stay in love with your ex doesn’t mean he’s still into you, too.
Say goodbye when it’s really time to bid your partner goodbye. Make it up when you see that there’s still a chance for you to be together again. The most important thing now is you know when and where to stop.
Is Making Up your Priority?
Honestly, if you have to fight in order to get involved in a heavy duty make-out session then it’s time to give the whole relationship thing another thought. Some couples find fights to be a huge turn on. For the occasional great night of passionate fun it’s all good. Once you’ve reached a point in the relationship that all common ground is gone and you need to fight to get in the mood there’s cause for concern.
When was the Last Time You Made Plans Together?
I’m not talking about plans to go to the kids dance recital or dinner at your parents. I’m talking about plans for the after the kids graduate and move out. Have you talked about where things are going down the road or can you even see past one day at a time? There’s something to be said for living in the moment but when you’re building a life together you should be looking to the future with one another as well.
How Often do You Share Your Dreams with Each Other?
Perhaps the greatest thing about being in a relationship is having someone to share your dreams and hopes for the future with. You know all those things you wouldn’t dare tell anyone else? How long since you’ve had a nice long chat about what you want to be when you grow up? Your next thought needs to be how long is too long for the person you’re supposed to be planning to share your life with?
If the relationship kills the beautiful dreams you have, call it quits and move on.
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