Dating Psychology 101: Demystifying Her Body Language
It is a Friday night and you are a single guy, a Casanova who is out to conquer the world. You visit your favorite place to hang out and you find out that it seems as if you have lost your touch in interacting with real women in the dating world. Rather than grabbing a beer at your local hangout where you will see the same group of people, why don’t you visit some place new?
Naturally, the best place to practice your dating skills is at the hottest bars and clubs in town. Women go here specifically to have fun – and much like your purpose for hanging out there in the first place – they would also like to meet men. So no matter how long you have been embroiled in the dating scene, you can definitely bring out the Casanova in you by learning a few things about the signals that they give out.
Basically, women are habitually giving out non-verbal cues to show their interest. If you receive ‘the look’ once you initially try to approach her, then you might not necessarily be using your finest dating techniques. Get rid of the pickup lines which you have been using for God-knows-how-long, and simply use a subtle but straightforward approach.
Afterwards, that is the time that you can sharpen even more your dating skills by putting on the charm. You wouldn’t want a hot woman walking the other direction once she sees you approaching. This is precisely the reason why it pays to learn all about how you can ‘listen’ to a woman’s body language.
Casanova Tactics on How to Understand Her Body Language
So what are these so-called Casanova techniques that you need to employ if you would like to understand a woman’s body language? Basically, there are non-verbal cues that you can look for. Your goal should naturally be to learn how to look out for subtle clues which signals that a woman is interested. To give you an idea about what these subtle and not-so-subtle clues are, take a look at the following list.
She is leaning towards you when trying to make a point. Being the ‘superior’ communicators that they are, you will see that a woman is interested when she leans or moves towards you when trying to make a point. Let’s say that introductions have already been dispensed with and you are already on the getting-to-know you stage. Even if it is not that loud in the bar and she leans over you during your conversation, that is definitely a good sign.
Prolonged eye contact – “I want to get to know you more.” When a woman holds your gaze for more than five seconds, it means that she is interested with what you have to say. Whether you are looking for a sign that she’ll say yes to your invitation of a date, this is precisely it.
Initiating physical contact and responding positively to your flirtations. It is not called the dating game for nothing. When a woman initiates physical contact and responds positively to your flirtations, that is as good a sign as any that she is interested. This is especially true when she laughs at your not-so-funny jokes.
Naturally, when you recognize these signs, it is up to you to make the initial move. Women would not want to be labelled as promiscuous or too forward – so once you recognize the signs, do make the first move, you Casanova! The dating world may be a bit complex, but a woman’s body language isn’t. So learn to read the signs and you should be able to get her number, set a real date or even go home with her by the end of the night.
George Andrews is a dating , love and relationships expert who has written numerous articles on the subject. Learn more about the art of pampering women by subscribing to his blog and checking out his website for regular updates.
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